Men are always confused when it comes to suspicions about their lady cheating; they don’t know what to believe; they keep suspecting her but they don’t have any clue on how to know that she’s really cheating or not, so it all ends as suspicions.
Some women can be referred to as a green snake in a green grass; they can put up a smiling face but the things they do in secret are really disgusting.
I’ve heard a lot of men ask how to know if their wife or girlfriend is cheating; many are in this dilemma and they need clarity.
Below are 6 sure ways to know your lady is cheating
1. BECOMES TOO SECRETIVE/PAYS MUCH ATTENTION TO HER PHONE
When a woman’s phone suddenly becomes her most prized asset then something is definitely wrong somewhere. If she can’t leave her phone for a second then she is definitely hiding something from you. If she won’t let you touch it or becomes way too guarded about her phone, then something is up bro. When a woman is cheating, her phone becomes her best friend; she knows a call or text can come in any time, so she just has to be smart.
2. WHEN SHE’S ALWAYS LOST IN THOUGHTS
One thing for sure is, when a woman is always lost in her thoughts, then something is wrong; it’s either she is thinking of something she’s scared of or something she likes. And in the case of cheating, when she’s always carried away by her thoughts and still maintains that happy feeling then she just might be cheating. A woman should be able to tell her man at all times what’s wrong with her; and if she can’t or gives the wrong reason (of which you would surely know that it’s not the reason) then she just might be cheating.
3. PAYS MORE ATTENTION TO HER APPEARANCE
When all of a sudden her appearance is given more attention (of which you would know it isn’t for you), then something is up. When a woman is doing something for her man, it would be obvious; if she’s dressing to impress you, you would know; if she’s looking sexy for you as well, you would know; she would most definitely show everything she’s doing is for you. But when she starts changing her wardrobe frequently, upgrading her perfumes, her underwear and all feminine things and she’s still on the same budget, then something is definitely up.
4. ALWAYS GIVING EXCUSES
When a woman is cheating, she comes up with very silly excuses and she always keeps giving excuses all the time. When she starts giving all manner of excuses then you really should know she’s up to something. Her movement and timing becomes suspect so she gives excuses to back them up.
5. SHE GIVES YOU LESS ATTENTION
When you have done your lady wrong, she gets back at you by giving you less attention. But it doesn’t end there; when she’s cheating as well, she gives you less attention, her mind becomes pre-occupied with a whole lot of things that she almost forgets about you. She has someone else she would always want to be with, so she unknowingly gives you all manner of excuses.
6. SEX BECOMES DISTANT
When a lady is cheating, she doesn’t have the time or urge to have sex with her man anymore and the few times she does, she doesn’t feel it. She becomes way too distant from having sex with you. She is attached to something new, so she doesn’t know how to keep on with you and enjoy sex. She does this unconsciously, without knowing that she’s becoming distant from having sex with you.
Like I described earlier, a cheating woman can be likened to a green snake in a green grass; her acts her deceptive and cunny. This piece is for the honest men out there caught in the dilemma of not knowing if their lady is cheating or not.