So many people are struggling in their marriages today because of a heart-break they had years back. This is why it’s really important you heal from a heart-break before moving into a new relationship.
Below are 6 ways heart-break can affect your marriage
1. YOU FIND IT DIFFICULT TO GIVE YOURSELF
Due to past heart breaks, you observe that lots of people find it really difficult to give their deepest self away in their marriage and this can cause big problems in your marriage. If you don’t heal properly before getting married to someone else, you might ruin your marriage because you might still find it difficult to let go of yourself.
2. YOU CAN’T HAVE A HEALTHY MARRIAGE WITH A BROKEN HEART
Your marriage won’t last long if you still have a broken heart from a previous relationship. You have to heal your broken heart or you might end up destroying your marriage.
3. YOU WON’T LOVE YOUR SPOUSE FULLY
You can’t love your spouse fully if you still carry a broken heart. Until you give your heart away, you would never love fully and you can’t give your heart away if it’s still broken.
4. YOU FIND IT DIFFICULT TO TRUST
If you still carry a broken heart, you would have issues in your marriage because it would become difficult for you to trust and we all know the importance of trust in every relationship including marriage. Heal your broken heart first because it’s really hard to trust with a broken heart.
5. YOU WOULD END UP HURTING YOUR SPOUSE
If you don’t let your broken heart heal before getting married, you would only end up hurting your spouse. You don’t want things to get to this point because it could get extremely dark and difficult.
6. THERE WON’T BE A CONNECTION BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE
When you get married with a broken heart, there won’t be a connection between you and your spouse and this could cause problems in your marriage. S*x with your partner would just be a routine instead of being a moment of intimacy with your partner.
You should understand that only you can heal your broken heart and until you heal your broken heart, you would ruin every relationship you go into.