In all honesty, there are some things ladies do in a relationship that would make their man aggrieved, but in a bid not to act immature, a lot of guys would rather keep still and act like it’s okay…but it isn’t.
Ladies, guys actually hate when you do the following:
1. SHE REMINDS YOU OF THINGS YOU DID WEEKS AND MONTHS AGO
He made a mistake a couple of weeks ago, the matter has long been settled, done and dusted; unsurprisingly a lot of ladies still have the habit of bringing back this same thing that has been dusted weeks, months and years ago — every guy wants his lady to stop doing this.
2. USE SEX AS A WEAPON
This is an occurrence which a lot of guys have encountered in their relationships. When she’s happy or you do something good for her then she gives you the cookie, and when she isn’t, there would be nothing for you unless you do that which she wants. Ladies try to use sex to wheel their man around, and no guy ever likes this.
3. EXPECTS YOU TO READ HER MIND
This is another one that freaks a lot guys out; for some unfamiliar reasons ladies have this belief that a romantic man should be able to read his lady’s mind and know what she wants, when she wants it and how she wants it. Come on ladies, we aren’t Chris Angels, and a relationship isn’t a magic show. Communication is quite important, and we cherish it a lot.
4. WHEN SHE SAYS SHE’S FINE
This is yet another familiar one; you see your lady looking all gloomy, and then you ask her a relevant question: “what’s the matter?” At the end, you get an irrelevant answer such as “fine”. This is one situation no guy wants to be in.
5. ALWAYS ON HER PHONE
When a lady’s phone becomes closer to her than her boyfriend, be sure that there is an unhappy boyfriend somewhere. Guys totally hate it when you’re continually busy with your phones on a date, during a conversation, just about everything. Try to keep the phone down at times and give that man some attention.
6. NEVER KEEPS TO TIME
This is another rather annoying one which almost every man encounters; when being late becomes a habit then surely you would have a man that’s constantly infuriated. Having to wait every time and continually having same results is rather annoying.
7. TRY TO MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY
This is also another occurrence which most guys don’t like. Some ladies try to make their man feel guilty for every offence committed and offence not committed. Also ladies try to use this guilt tip to coerce their man into doing things he’d rather not want to. When you hear things like: “if you love me you would do this”, that’s a perfect example of being placed on guilt wings; every choice you make afterwards is dangerous.
Come on ladies, we know you almost always love to have things your way, but we would love it if these 7 things are far from our relationships.