Why don’t you stop chasing him and have him chase you instead? Having him chase you will leave him more intrigued by you and make him want you even more. So is it really possible for you to make him chase you? The answer is yes.
Continue below as I bring to you 11 ways to get a man to chase you. You would surely enjoy this.
Guys might feel intimidated seeing a lady with confidence but they are also deeply attached to them. A guy is more likely to chase you when he sees you as a confident lady with so much to offer.
2. FLIRT WITH HIM
When I say flirt with him, I don’t mean kissing him, taking him to your bed or exposing your body to him. Making eye contact with him, playing with your hair when you are around him, giving him a little smile even when nothing is funny, blushing, teasing him a bit and just being playful and fun when you are together are some of the ways to flirt with him to spark his interest and give him a taste of what it would be like if he gets you.
3. HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE
Just because you want him to chase you doesn’t mean you should focus everything you do on him and not live your own life. When you have a meaningful and fulfilling life, you make yourself an interesting person to meet. He is less likely to chase you if he knows you are busy doing nothing because he knows he can always find you when he wants to. Being busy makes him more likely to chase because he knows you are a busy person and he needs to make every time with you count. So be serious with your career, and have a few hobbies or interest you care about.
4. YOUR APPEARANCE MATTERS
Do whatever makes you look beautiful and sexy. Every lady has her unique style that brings out the beauty in her. Wear clothes that make you feel great, get your hair and nails done and always wear a big smile. If you want him to chase you, you have to make an effort in taking good care of yourself.
5. DON’T MAKE YOURSELF READILY AVAILABLE FOR HIM ALWAYS
This is where most ladies get it wrong. Making yourself always available to him makes you look less exciting and cheap to him. If you want a man to chase you, then he has to feel that you have a lot going on and you’re difficult to get hold of. He shouldn’t ask you out two hours before a date and you say yes. Don’t be in a hurry to pick his calls, take your time. Just because I said you shouldn’t make yourself readily available always doesn’t mean you should make him think you are always just too busy to hang out with him. When you make yourself always too busy to hang out with him, he might get bored. Striking a balance is really important. Don’t be too busy and don’t be too available.
6. MAKE HIM SEE THE ATTENTION YOU GET FROM OTHER GUYS
Some might want to disagree with me but I still insist this is important too if you want him to chase you. Having other guys interested in you makes you more desirable to him. When a guy knows that he isn’t the only one that wants you, he would want you even more. So try to make him see you getting attention from other guys but ensure it looks natural or he would think you are trying too hard to get his attention. Striking a balance here is also important because if he always sees you around guys, he might think you are a big flirt.
7. LET HIM SEE THE KIND SIDE OF YOU
Every man would definitely be touched by a kind and pretty lady so if you want him to chase, he needs to see that kind side of you. Get him something on his birthday, get two tickets to a concert or to watch his favourite sports team with him etc. Doing something nice for him keeps him interested but striking a balance here is really important too. Doing this regularly would make him take you for granted, so find a balance between playing the hard to get girl and giving in by being nice to him.
8. LET HIM TAKE THE INITIATIVE
You spoil the chase if you take the initiative and make the first call. I understand it’s the 21st century and it works sometimes but waiting till he makes the first call remains the best to me. I still insist you don’t reach out to him as more as he reaches out so you don’t ruin the chase and make it look too easy for him.
9. MYSTERY IS IMPORTANT
A little mystery is important if you want him to chase you. Don’t tell him everything about you the moment you meet him. Make him work to get to know you as this makes him chase. When there are things about you he doesn’t know, it makes him want to push even more. Being mysterious could really be fun if used properly.
10. BE UNPREDICTABLE:
If you want a man to chase you then you really have to be unpredictable, as this keeps him on his toes. If he always knows your next move because you keep doing the same thing, he gets bored. Be unpredictable. If he doesn’t know what to expect, then you would have him where you want him.
11. THE CHASE IS NEVER OVER
So congratulations, you now have your man but one thing you should never forget is that the chase is never over. Just because you have him now doesn’t mean you should relax. Let your guard down and fall deep for him but remember to keep things fresh and exciting at the same time. Always remember to keep him on his toes.