How many women actually know that they can make their man love them better?
There are certain things a woman does and certain ways she acts that would make her man feel more attached to her and love her better.
Here are 11 ways you can help your man love you better
1. MAKE EFFORTS TO UNDERSTAND HIM
Make efforts to understand him; know your man almost as you know yourself and it would be easier for him to understand you better. When this happens, your man might find it easier to love you and love you better too.
2. DON’T MAKE YOURSELF HARD TO UNDERSTAND
A lot of women make themselves hard to understand; it’s unfair to expect your man to know everything about you without you making an effort.
Don’t assume he should know this and that because he might not. Make yourself easier to understand and communicate your feelings with your man rather than bottling it up.
3. DON’T BE HARD TO PLEASE
Truth be told, some women are hard to please. When you make it easy for him to understand you, it would be easier for him to love you better. Also, appreciate the things he does, that’s what would make him do more.
4. SPEND TIME WITH HIS FRIENDS
Not a lot of women love to do this, but the few who do form an even prefect bond with their man. There is a synergy that comes into your relationship when this happens.
5. CORRECT HIM BUT DON’T NAG
Nagging is one trait that would separate your man from you over a period of time. Correct your man, tell him what he did wrong, but don’t nag about it for days.
6. PRAISE HIM TOO
Just as you should correct him for his wrongs, you should also praise him for doing right. When you do this, your man would take it as being fair enough and he would love you for it. However, when he perceives that you don’t praise him for what he does, but you are quick to correct his wrongs, it may create a grumpy feeling.
7. LOOK YOUR BEST
A lot of women don’t even know how pay attention to how they dress and they expect their men to continually praise them.
If you want honest compliments from your man, look awesome and he would love and appreciate you for that.
8. HAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS
The key to keeping a man is by being able to converse with him; men are more attracted to women they can converse with. Have good conversations with him and you would wow his mind more than you can imagine.
If he enjoys your conversations, he wouldn’t want to miss talking to you day after day — and you know what that means.
9. DO THINGS YOU BOTH LOVE
Find things you both love to do and try to do them together; this would help foster togetherness in your relationship, and when togetherness exists, he would love you better.
10. LEARN TO FORGIVE…AND FORGET
This may be difficult but it’s highly important. A lot of women don’t understand the concept of ‘forgive and forget’. Of course, as humans it’s hard to forget a wrong done to you; but forgetting doesn’t mean you wipe it off your memory immediately — it means you stop making reference to it; it means the incidence is past and you wouldn’t bring it up again. This is how to forgive and forget.
11. TAKE THE INITIATIVE SOMETIMES
Make time out for dates with your man, pay the bills, give him a treat that he didn’t expect — don’t wait till it’s his birthday, make sex advances, give him personalised gift items, be proactive. The thing with a lot of women is that they wait to be loved, forgetting that they have to love in return.
You can actually make your man love you better.