There was a time when messages were a leading cause of breakups between couples.
These days, people would rather delete them after reading than risk getting into trouble for them.
It must be noted that not every empty inbox or chat is genuinely done to for the sake of maintaining peace in a relationship.
While it is like that sometimes, others times, people just want to cover up something bad.
If your partner deletes their chats and messages, it could be for any of the following reasons.
TO KEEP YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP HAPPY
Knowing how jealous some of us can get over the most trivial things, our partners sometimes go the length of emptying their chats and inbox so we have nothing to worry about when we get a hold of their phones.
Itâs not because they have anything to hide, they just donât want us getting worked up over nothing.
Oftentimes, people who do this would have had one or two jealousy-motivated run-ins with their partner.
Itâs not everything in your partnerâs phone that is meant for both your eyes.
There are those that only he or she is meant to see. It could be about work, or maybe family and friends related.
Donât take it to heart. This may seem âwrongâ since most of us feel we should know everything our partner is up to, but itâs not always right.
Theyâre entitled to having certain things known to them only, I believe.
Itâs still a big topic of discussion whether or not flirting passes as cheating too, although it must be said that thereâs a big difference between them.
One can flirt without touching or getting close to their subject.
You can even flirt without knowing, but itâs not the same with cheating. If youâre cheating, itâs because you really want to do it. So yeah, people delete flirtatious chats and messages too so they donât get in trouble.
THEYâRE REALLY CHEATING
Had to put this last because itâs the commonest reason people actually delete their chats and messages.
If theyâre up to something shady, and they donât want you to know, thereâs no easier way to ensure that is the case than delete the message.
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