5 Reasons Some Women are Side Chicks


In a world where a lot of women want to date exclusively, there is an increasing number of others who have no problems being with multiple men and playing second fiddle. What are the reasons for this?


This was always going to be on the list. There are a lot of women who are struggling financially, and can’t keep body and soul together. They have no job, and can’t afford the basic things of life. When they see a man willing to spend so much or even a little more than they’re used to getting on them, they wouldn’t hesitate to be with him regardless of his status


Loneliness has driven a lot of people into the wrong arms. There are a number of women who are dating other people’s partners because they are too scared of being alone. It’s not about money or material benefits, it’s just that they can’t stand being lonely.


Sometimes, lust gets a hold of you, and drives you to do things you ordinarily wouldn’t. You know that a certain course of action or behaviour is bad but due to a lack of discipline, you fall for the pressure. Some women just can’t resist great looking men, even if he’s hooked up.


I did a survey on why people cheat sometime ago, and an overwhelming number of respondents suggested they do it for the thrill of it. The same applies here. Some women just want to get a taste of what it is like to date another woman’s man.


For some reason, a lot of women see excluding dating as “very caging”, so they’d rather not, and be free enough to date whoever they want to, and when they want to.

Either ways and whichever may be the reason, I have always been a strong advocate for exclusive dating. It gives you stability, and offers more security, not just emotionally, but even health wise. There are risks that could come in form of an STI or an unwanted pregnancy. So it’s a better idea to stick to your own man, and avoid other people’s own.


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