Not all girls drop hints or give signs that she isn’t interested, but if you know how to read them correctly, you’ll pick up on the right cues in no time.
Sometimes we’re blinded by love and miss these red flags or even choose to ignore them. Here are some ways you can know when a girl isn’t interested in you.
- There is no definite answer as to whether you will be together
If you try to make plans with her and she says only vague things like, “Sounds fun!” or Great! What day and time should we go?
Then it’s one of the signs that she’s not interested and may even flake on you at the last minute.
- She never initiates communication.
If you’re the only one who always sends the texts, then she’s not interested in you.
If she’s into you, she will initiate talking to you 50% of the time. Even girls who try to play hard to get don’t play that hard.
- She never suggests that you should hang out.
Not only does she not initiate communication with you, she never tries to make any plans with you.
Why? Because you are low on her priority list. She has other people she’d rather hang out with.
- She flirts with other guys but not you.
When you’re out in a group and she’s smiling and flirting with the other guys but you’re just sitting there feeling left out, well, that’s another one of the huge signs that she’s not interested in you. When she’s interested, she flirts. Period
- She asks you for advice about other guys.
No, this is not an attempt to make you jealous. She just doesn’t care if you like her because she’s into other guys.
If she was into you, she’d appear available and not talk about other men.
- She never wants you to pick her up.
She doesn’t want you walking her to her door after you hang out. Because then you might be tempted to try to go in for a goodnight kiss.
Again, because this is too “date-ish,” she just avoids it by meeting you in public places instead.
- She tells you she’s not interested.
No, she’s not lying. She’s really just not into you. If she flat-out tells you that she doesn’t want to see you, then she’s probably not interested.
This is one of the most obvious signs that she isn’t interested in you, but many guys ignore it.