A Nigerian man has canceled his wedding just three weeks before the ceremony after discovering that his fiancée only listens to her spiritual father.

The revelation was shared by his friend, Chinedu Ihekwoaba, on Twitter. According to Ihekwoaba, the groom’s friends were concerned because the woman disregarded everyone else’s opinions, including her own family.

Her behavior raised alarms, as she seemed to follow the pastor’s every command without question.

The groom felt that the situation was unhealthy and ultimately decided to call off the wedding.