“If you’re looking for a man who’ll love you for who you are, talk to your father” – Woman fires shots
Published on June 25, 2026 at 2:00 PM by Edgar Naitha
A Nigerian woman has sparked widespread debate on social media after sharing her views on dating, relationships and marriage in a viral video.
She argued that women should focus on building their own value instead of seeking validation from men. According to her, men who are genuinely interested in a woman usually move quickly to commit to a relationship.
She claimed that a man who dates a woman for many years without proposing may still be weighing other romantic options.
The woman also advised women not to believe that spending more time in a relationship automatically leads to marriage.
She further encouraged women to “treat men like jobs,” saying emotional investment in a relationship should come with appreciation and reciprocity.
Her remarks have generated mixed reactions online, with some people supporting her views while others strongly disagree.
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