Falling in love could be a tricky thing, and sometimes your heart could fall for the wrong person.
Falling in love with the wrong person can be one of the most painful situations one can experience in relationships. When you are in love with the wrong person, your love life with that person would be like hell and there is little to nothing you can do about it.
Below are some signs that you have fallen in love with the wrong person:
1. YOU ARE NEVER APPRECIATED
When with the wrong person, you would never feel appreciated, no matter what you do. A lot of people fall in love and do all manner of things for their partner, but they never get appreciated for it — that’s a typical sign of someone who is wrong for you.
2. THEY DON’T RECIPROCATE YOUR LOVE
Love is a two way street; it ought to be felt and shown by the two partners. When the person you love doesn’t reciprocate your love then that person is wrong for you.
3. THEY DON’T LISTEN TO YOU
Listening is an important part of communication; you can hear someone talk without really listening to them. People only listen to someone they care about or who they have interest in. If you’ve fallen in love with someone who doesn’t listen to you then you have definitely fallen for the wrong person.
4. YOU ARE TAKEN FOR GRANTED
When someone takes you for granted, the message is simple — that they don’t need you in their lives. If someone takes your love, your feelings and your emotions for granted then it’s a big sign that you have fallen for the wrong person.
5. THEY FEEL TOO IMPORTANT FOR YOU
When you have fallen for someone who deems himself / herself too important or too valuable for you then you are only on a wild goose chase.
6. YOU DON’T HAVE A FUTURE WITH THEM
When you’ve fallen for someone who doesn’t want a future with you then it’s obvious that the person is only there for what he / she can get from you. When that person doesn’t want to have a future with you, it’s just a sign of how little you are valued.
7. THEY HURT YOU AND DON’T CARE
Some people fall in love with a partner who would hurt them time and time again without caring how they feel. If you have fallen for someone who hurts you and doesn’t even care then it’s a sign that you have fallen for the wrong person.
8. IT’S ALWAYS A WAR ZONE WITH THEM
When with someone you can’t have an understanding with and your relationship with that person is like a war zone — there’s always something to quarrel and fight about then you’ve fallen for the wrong person.
9. THEY DON’T RESPECT YOU
Everyone deserves to be respected in a relationship; but if you have fallen for a partner who doesn’t respect you then it’s a sign that you have fallen for the wrong person who would hurt you, maltreat you and even disrespect you.
10. YOU LOSE YOURSELF IN THE PROCESS
Some relationships are demoralising and can take you backwards. If you lose sense of whom you are in a relationship, and you lose your self-worth and self-confidence then you have fallen for the wrong person.
11. YOU DON’T HAVE GOOD MOMENTS TOGETHER
When you have fallen for someone who you rarely have good moments with then you have fallen for the wrong person. If you don’t spend quality time with your partner or have quality conversations or create special moments together and your partner isn’t ready to have these with you then you have definitely for the wrong person.
12. THEY CONSTANTLY CHEAT ON YOU
If you’ve fallen for a partner who always cheats on you and care less about their cheating ways or fail to repent from it then you are definitely in a toxic relationship with the wrong person.
13. THEY ARE EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE
If you’ve fallen for someone who isn’t available emotionally then you have fallen for the wrong person. Emotional unavailability can be a terrible thing to live with; being with an emotionally unavailable partner is almost a waste of time. A relationship with such a person would be full of heartaches and heartbreaks.
14. YOU CAN’T BE YOURSELF
When you have fallen for someone who doesn’t make you feel genuine then you are with the wrong person. If you have to be someone else just to please that person then you have definitely fallen for the wrong person.
15. THEY HAVE NO INTEREST IN YOUR LIFE
If you have fallen for someone who doesn’t have an interest in your life or your affairs then you have fallen for someone who doesn’t deserve to be in your life.
Falling for the wrong person can be the worst relationship mistake you could ever make, because it would only be an uphill task from then on.