You’ve been with your partner for a while, and you’re starting to feel like you are in love.
You have great memories together, but something just doesn’t feel right. You can’t quite put your finger on what’s wrong, but deep down inside, something feels off about the relationship.
If this sounds like you, then it is time for some soul-searching before things get worse.
The following signs will help you determine if the person you are with is meant for you:
You are being bullied and belittled.
If you’re in a relationship and find that your partner is constantly putting you down, or bullying you for no reason, it’s time to make some changes. Your partner should be making you feel good about yourself, but if they are doing the opposite, then it’s best for both of you to move on.
If the bullying goes beyond simple insults and becomes physical abuse or threats of any kind then you must end things with them immediately! It may take time, but once their grip on your life loosens enough so that they can’t affect how much happiness is present every day then things will start looking up again.
You feel controlled or manipulated.
If you feel controlled or manipulated by your partner, you may be in an emotionally abusive relationship. Here are some signs to look out for:
The person is always trying to control how you spend her time and money.
The person is always trying to make you feel guilty about things that have happened in the past.
The person is always trying to make you feel bad about yourself, such as by saying that nobody else would ever want a relationship with someone like you (or vice versa).
Your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries.
Your partner should respect your boundaries. Your boundaries are important, and you shouldn’t have to compromise them. If your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries or otherwise pushes against them, it is time to end the relationship.
You’re unhappy with yourself.
You feel like you are not good enough.
You feel like a failure.
You feel like you have lost your identity.
You feel like you have lost your self-respect.
Your partner always doubts your opinions and choices.
Your partner always has a negative opinion of your choices.
Your partner tries to control you in every aspect of life, including your career, friends, family, and hobbies.
He/she is jealous of the success of anyone close to you (even if they are not romantically involved).
The signs that you are in love with the wrong person are all around you and can be hard to spot. If you are experiencing even one of these things, it is time to make a change in your relationship or end it completely.
Do not stay in a relationship that is causing you pain.
If you are unhappy with yourself, then how can anyone else make you happy?
If someone has control over your life and feelings, they will never be able to trust them
If you are experiencing even one of these things, it is time to make a change in your relationship or end it completely.